Community guidelines

What is not allowed here, said plainly.

• A profile that is not really you

  Your own name, your own face, your own facts. A profile made to look like somebody else, or to hide that you are already married, is removed the moment it is found — no warning.

• A photograph that is not appropriate for this platform

  This is a nikah platform, not a dating app. Photographs should show your face clearly, as you would want a prospective family to see it — nothing intimate, and nothing of anybody who has not agreed to appear.

• Asking for money, in any form

  Never through a message on this site, ever. A member who asks another for money — for a ticket, an emergency, a visa, a gift — is removed and reported.

• Harassment, threats, or abuse

  Including after a conversation has ended. Blocking and reporting exist because this happens, and both are one tap (see Staying safe).

• Sharing what somebody has not agreed to share

  A screenshot of a private conversation, a forwarded photograph, a phone number passed to a third person. What is shared here is shared with the person you are speaking to, not with anybody they know.

• Contacting a family outside the platform without consent

  If a conversation has not opened here, you do not have permission to reach that family by another route — a phone number found elsewhere, a mutual relative, a message to a sibling.

What happens when a rule is broken

A moderator reviews it and has to record what they decided and why. You are told what happened to your account and you can appeal — read Reporting and takedowns for the timelines we hold ourselves to.