Community guidelines

What is not allowed here, said plainly.

• A profile that is not really you

  Your own name, your own face, your own facts. A profile made to look like somebody else, or to hide that you are already married, is removed the moment it is found: no warning.

• A photograph that is not appropriate for this platform

  This is a nikah platform, not a dating app. Photographs should show your face clearly, as you would want a prospective family to see it: nothing intimate, and nothing of anybody who has not agreed to appear.

• Asking for money, in any form

  Never through a message on this site, ever. A member who asks another for money (for a ticket, an emergency, a visa, a gift) is removed and reported.

• Harassment, threats, or abuse

  Including after a conversation has ended. Blocking and reporting exist because this happens, and both are one tap (see Staying safe).

• Sharing what somebody has not agreed to share

  A screenshot of a private conversation, a forwarded photograph, a phone number passed to a third person. What is shared here is shared with the person you are speaking to, not with anybody they know.

• Contacting a family outside the platform without consent

  If a conversation has not opened here, you do not have permission to reach that family by another route: a phone number found elsewhere, a mutual relative, a message to a sibling.

What happens when a rule is broken

A moderator reviews it and has to record what they decided and why. You are told what happened to your account and you can appeal, read Reporting and takedowns for the timelines we hold ourselves to.